Today we are fifteen years of Married, we married in September '98, after four years of boyfriends… We are celebrating the Crystal Weddings, I share some tips that have served us to have a beautiful and lasting relationship.
As I told you in my immigration story, we got married in Monterrey, Mexico, and a few years later we came to live in Texas. We met at the university and well, here we are.
By the way, I always remember that '80s commercial I think it was family planning, that two co-wees are talking, when suddenly another one walks by and says:
-"How do you do it"?
-"With that husband who's always getting you scathered"
hehehe that commercial always gave me laughter, with the gossip on one side and the other happy showing off them.
Well I keep telling you after fifteen years here we continue, I hope that for many more years, this year we celebrate the Crystal Weddings, you can read more about my past anniversaries, Silk Weddings, Lace Weddings.
Here I share some tips that have worked for us, to stay together, are NOT rules, because none is obligated, as I always say: Here the door is very wide for both of us and if we continue here it is because we want.
Five Tips for a Lasting Marriage
1. Respect for your partner. No bad words, no bad treatment. In a good relationship, you don't even feel like offending, if you feel otherwise about your partner, think about whether it's really worth the relationship.
5. Keep the romance alive. You seem very trite, don't you? Children, work and all family activities, can be very absorbing, leave a time for you and your partner, talk, go for a walk together, snuggle on the couch and watch a movie; give yourself a massage, go out and have fun, in short anything that helps keep the flame of love alive and don't forget about sex… which is not the main thing, but it is a very important part 😉
These are just some of the tips that have worked for us as a couple to maintain a lasting marriage.
And you? What do you recommend for a lasting relationship?